How to Ask a Girl Out?
This is probably the most nerve racking things every guy has to deal with at some point in his adult life. Men are totally in fear of rejection, particularly from a woman. Here are some great pointers that I've learned in the past when asking a girl out.
Step1
First and foremost you don't want to come off as the creepy weird guy. Women generally are keen to sniffing out creepy. If you want to ask her out start conversation about something that she obviously likes. If you know her that's easy. If you don't start off giving her a compliment about a neutral subject that doesn't set off red flags. I often give complements about hair as its something women spend a lot of time on but men generally don't notice.
Step2
Practice being witty and humorous. Most women enjoy men that are witty and can make them smile in a relatively short time. There are numerous ways you can make a woman smile one of them is as easy as letting them notice your checking them out by making eye contact, smiling and then winking. It lets them know your interested but the winking shows you've got a sense of humor about being caught red handed.
Step3
Women know a sales pitch when they hear one. Don't sound like a car salesmen. If your going to ask a girl out its always good to start off by introducing yourself by name and asking for her name. This is not easy as most people tend to screw it up with alcohol, however done right, you will feel like fine woven silk.
Step4
When asking a girl out don't ask her about wanting to hang out or going out. Really that sounds cheap in my book. Always invite her to an event just like you invite anyone to an event, that doesn't make her feel obligated to be there and she can't say no to a phone number. FYI you can give anyone an invitation and they will take it, does'nt mean they will RSVP
by:Sidhartha
Syam's words: Let's try!
source from: http://www.ehow.com/
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